If you are looking for the best love questions for introspection or to ask in your life? This list of questions to fall in love is for you.

Whether it is a girlfriend, a spouse, a crush next door or a special friend you want to build a special bond with, these love questions will help you to not only build the special bond between you but also declared your good intentions for them and move them closer to your heart.

The questions are short with a relaxed leisurely feel.

You can grab a glass of your favorite drink , build unforgettable memories while having fun! Happy asking.

The 36 Questions That Lead to Love

Set I

#1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

#2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?

#3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?

#4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?

#5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

#6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

#7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?

#8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.

#9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

#10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

#11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.

#12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?

Set II

#13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?

#14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?

#15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

#16. What do you value most in a friendship?

#17. What is your most treasured memory?

#18. What is your most terrible memory?

#19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?

#20. What does friendship mean to you?

#21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?

#22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.

#23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?

#24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?


#25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling …”

#26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share …”

#27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.

#28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.

#29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.

#30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

#31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.

#32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

#33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?

#34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?

#35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?

#36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.

Love Questions to Ask

Part I

Love Questions to Ask a Girl

True love?

Questions to ask your girlfriend and know if she truly loves you.

#1. What do you value the most in a relationship?

#2. Which type of men do you find attractive?

#3. Which values do you hold dear to your heart?

#4. What have you learned about relationships these days?

#5. How do you know when you are in love with a guy?

#6. Have you been in love before?

#7. What is the foundation of a healthy relationship?

#8. What is your love language?

#9. What do you remember about falling in love for the very first time?

#10. What is your toxic relationship story?

#11. What is the best thing about being in love?

#12. What is your romantic Valentine’s Day story?

#13. What is the most romantic destination you have ever been to?

#14. What comes into your mind when you hear Paris?

#15. Chocolates, roses, and wine… what comes into your mind?

#16. What is your go-to love song?

#17. Where would you like to go on a vacation this year?

#18. Have you ever moved in with a partner before?

#19. What do you remember about your first kiss?

#20. Who is your crush?

#21. What is your type of a man?

#22. What is the longest you have been in a relationship?

#23. How will you feel if I said I love you?

#24. Why do good girls fall for bad boys?

#25. Do you like calls or text messages person?

#26. What do you like about your parents’ relationship?

#27. At what point does casual dating become a relationship?

#28. Coffee dates or dinner dates?

#29. Do you have rules when it comes to dating?

#30. Is it okay to kiss after the first date?

Part II

Love Questions to Ask a Guy

#1. What is your type of girl?

#2. What is the most romantic thing a girl can do for you?

#3. How do you know if a girl likes you?

#4. Have you ever proposed to someone before?

#5. Have you ever lived with a partner or married before?

#6. Are you easy to love?

#7. What goes through your mind when a girl gives you her phone number?

#8. How active are you on social media? Instagram, Snapchat, or Tiktok handle?

#9. Are you seeing someone at the moment?

#10. What are you looking for? A relationship, something casual or not sure?

#11. Have you been in a serious relationship before?

#12. What makes a relationship last for a lifetime?

#13. What is the problem with girls these days?

#14. Do finances affect relationships?

#15. Are you into a lifestyle of parties and fun?

#16. How do you show your love for a girl you are in love with?

#17. How do you spend your weekends?

#18. Are you into kissing and cuddling?

#19. What do you value the most in a relationship?

#20. Should married couples still go for dates?

#21. What is your take on my style in fashion?

#22. How likely are you to respond to a random DM from a girl?

#23. How is our work-life balance?

#24. What do you find hard to forgive in a relationship?

#25. What breaks your heart?

#26. Does the past affect the present relationship?

#27. What makes love grow?

#28. What is the best gift you received from a girl?

#29. What is the craziest thing you have done in the name of love?

#30. Can you love unconditionally?

Part III

Love Questions to Ask Yourself

1. How do I define love?

2. Am I in love?

3. Is my partner in love with me?

4. Am I romantic?

5. Do I find my boyfriend/girlfriend romantic?

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6. How much do I like my partner’s presence?

7. What is the best way to show my love for someone?

8. Do I appreciate them enough?

9. Am I intentional in my relationship?

10. Is my relationship toxic?

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11. What purpose does the relationship serve in my life?

12. How proud is my boyfriend of me?

13. What is your picture of an ideal relationship?

14. What can’t you get enough of with your special one?

15. How happy are you when they are around?

16. Do you trust yourself to be romantic enough?

17. What are the cornerstones of a happy relationship?

18. In what ways does the relationship benefit you?

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19. What are your biggest fears when it comes to your love life?

20. Have you ever fallen in love before?

21. Is your love life growing?

22. Am I growing as a person?

23. What are your relationship goals for the next three years?

24. Do you date?

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25. When was your last date?

26. How often do you date?

27. How often and how much time do you dedicate to each other?

28. What attributes are your pillar in the relationship?

29. Are you proud of having him or her in your life?

30. Are you generally happy?

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31. How often do you feel fulfilled?

32. In your opinion, what are the responsibilities of a man?

33. What are the responsibilities of a woman?

34. What is the relationship between money and relationships?

35. Will you be with your partner if they become bankrupt right now?

36. How confident are you that your partner will be there for you no matter what?

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37. Do you sometimes feel you are lying to yourself?

38. Should you get married?

39. What is the nature of your relationship?

40. What do you consider cheating?

41. What would you not tolerate?

42. Does sex help you bond?

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43. Do you believe in sex after marriage?

44. What are your limits when it comes to love life?

45. In what ways do you keep each other happy?

46. How well do you communicate?

47. What is your love language? Does your partner know about it?

48. Have you ever imagined you two together for life?

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49. What matters the most in your love life?

50. In what ways are you trying to get closer to each other?

51. Do you feel understood?

52. How often do you feel misunderstood?

53. Do you believe in soulmate status?

54. Do you strongly feel your partner is your soulmate?

55. What do your friends say about your partner?

56. How often do you bond?

57. How do you feel about your partner’s touch?

58. How often do you miss your partner?

59. Do you sometimes get into a fight?

60. How do you resolve your fights?

61. How often do you get mad at them for no good reason at all?

62. What do you like in common?

63. What do you like that they don’t like?

64. Does your partner appreciate and respect your family?

65. Has your partner ever introduced you to any of their relatives?

66. Has your partner ever talked of introducing you to their parents?

67. Have you ever broken up with him or her before?

68. How much does your partner understand you?

69. Do you sometimes keep secrets away from your special someone?

70. How often do they make you feel special?

71. How often do they make you feel loved?

72. Does your partner sometimes portray signs of being possessive of you?

73. Does your partner sometimes show signs of being jealous?

74. What is the last thing that made you cry in your relationship?

75. What experiences qualify as the building blocks for your love life?

76. What are some of the most memorable experiences you have had together?

77. Have you had dark times together? How did you go about it?

78. Do you believe in love at fight sight?

79. Have you ever fallen out of love before? What made you fall out of love?

80. Have you been in a complex relationship before? How do you define a complex relationship?

81. What is your take on friends with benefits type of relationships?

82. How would you summarize your love life so far?

83. How likely are you to sacrifice your life for the sake of love?

84. What is the biggest sacrifice you have ever done in the name of love?

85. What relationship advice would you give a younger you?

86. How often does your partner say: I love you?

87. How often do you say: I love you?

88. What is the relationship between love and sex?

89. Can there be love without sex?

90. What is the relationship between love and money?

91. Would you truly love and be happy with no money?

92. How mutual is your relationship?

93. Do you sometimes feel your partner cheats?

94. How often do you feel insecure?

95. How often does your partner feel insecure?

96. Do you feel beautiful enough for him?

97. Do you feel he is handsome enough for you?

There you have a complete list of 36 questions to fall in love with and more.

Questions to fall in love.